Suicide Prevention Helpline Numbers

Its saddening to see the news of people committing suicide almost everyday. Pandemic can be the major reason behind this in addition to other matters of life. Here are some phone numbers where one can reach for support.

If you or someone you know needs help, call any of these helplines: Aasra (Mumbai) 022-27546669, Sneha (Chennai) 044-24640050, Sumaitri (Delhi) 011-23389090, Cooj (Goa) 0832- 2252525, Jeevan (Jamshedpur) 065-76453841, Pratheeksha (Kochi) 048-42448830, Maithri (Kochi) 0484-2540530, Roshni (Hyderabad) 040-66202000, Lifeline 033-64643267 (Kolkata)

(Suicide is no solution to anything. If you need support or know someone who does, please reach to your nearest mental health specialist. Helplines: 0484-2540530, 0471-2533900)

International Courier – Telangana

I am happy that we have an International Couriers in Medchal Telangana. Some of the pro’s and con’s

Pro’s

  1. They come to your home collect things.
  2. They are available on phone / whatsapp
  3. They charge reasonable amount

Con’s

  1. They say they will pack in front of you, but they did not pack in front of me.
  2. The staff who came to my house were not knowledgeable enough to understand what is allowed and not allowed in the package.
  3. They told me I can send lighting balloons and took it along with the greeting card, but only greeting card was sent, and I did not get back the lighting balloons.
  4. They said it will reach in a week, but later said we said it will reach in 6 working days. My card was supposed to reach before Christmas but it reached few days later.

Cisgender

While filling online applications for various purposes for these days you might get confused to fill in the column what gender you associate with!!!

So here is the meaning of Cisgender by google.

As adjectives the difference between agender and cisgenderis that agender is (rare|neologism) without an associated gender while cisgender is (lgbt|of a person) identifying with or experiencing a gender the same as one’s biological sex or that is affirmed by society, eg being both male-gendered and male-sexed.

Before you decide to Volunteer

Its more than five years since I moved to America and I have volunteered at various organizations. Even though I have done various roles as a volunteer, most of it was and is teaching. There are some lessons I have learnt during this period. You might as well ask what is there to think before we volunteer? We all volunteer for a good cause and nothing should hold us back. But there are some factors which you better consider before jumping to volunteering for any organization or project.

First and foremost, we need to understand why do I want to volunteer for this project or organization? Do I understand the goals and purpose of the organization and are my values and visions in line with that of decision makers of the organization? It might be better idea to discuss with the decision makers what are the future goals of the organization. How is it going to operate in the long run? Are the rules and regulations which are true for today are going to continue for tomorrow also?

For example, I volunteered as teacher at one organization which was conducting free classes for all students interested. I had the freedom to follow my teaching methodologies, classes were free for students, I was not paid as I was a volunteer. Once in a while both teachers and students would get a mail requesting for donation for the organization which was optional. They could donate as minimum amount as they wanted or not pay at all. No one would come to know who paid or who did not pay. This is something which was in line with my idea of teaching for free.

Then there was another organization which is also a not for profit organization and I volunteered to teach there as it was open to anyone who wanted to learn the language. But there something which started as free started asking for a registration fee in the next year. Then they also made it compulsory to become members of the organization which of course was paid. So, this will put the parents who would have enrolled their kids thinking it as free into a dilemma. Also, for volunteers who started volunteering for it because it was a free course. Then quitting such projects is also hard because of the friends the students or volunteers will have. It does not matter what ever minimum amount they are charging because in the first place they attracted students and volunteers by calling it a free course.

Then there was another organization which also conducted free classes then started asking for donations for some religious institutions it supported. Here again its okay to ask for donations, but sometimes the donations become compulsory like it happens in most of the private schools in India. They make list of parents who paid and those who did not pay and then circulate it in their respective groups. Here also we get a question should I be part of it?

I have been attending another class as a student for more than two years now. The teacher never asked for any fees or donation. Even though he is a part of an organization where he learnt the skill he is teaching. I am glad we still have such teachers and want to support such teachers or volunteers and want to be one like them.

As a result, I started my own language classes which are free for everyone. It will always be free.

So, lesson learnt yes, even for volunteering you need to check is it in line with my values and my ethics?

Ethical leadership program for Highschool students

https://www.kentplace.org/ethics-institute/eikps-virtual-summer/ethical-entrepreneurship#


WHO: The program is open to rising 9th through 12th-graders, both KPS, and non-KPS students. This program is coed.

COST: $350, with an optional add on package ($125) for 1-2 hours per day of direct instruction around 3D design. Some financial aid is available.

Falls church covid update may 2020

Status Update as of 4 p.m. on Tuesday, May 19

Important Data

  • City of Falls Church
    44 total cases, including 9 hospitalized and 4 deaths; 297.9 cases per 100,000 people
    (Compared to yesterday: no change)
  • Fairfax Health District (includes the City of Falls Church, City of Fairfax, Fairfax County, and towns within the county)
    8,111 total cases, including 1,128 hospitalized and 299 deaths
    (Compared to yesterday: 177 more cases, 13 more hospitalizations, 8 more deaths)
  • Data and analytics: Fairfax Health Department and Virginia Department of Health

Masks and Sanitizer

There is a saying in kannada ‘attege ondu kaala sosege ondu kaala’. There is a time when mother in law has good time and a time when daughter in law has good time.

With Corona Virus pandemic many such good and bad times are seen by different businesses. The product which is in highest demand is face masks.

We didn’t buy face masks ahead of others as initially WHO kept on telling masks are needed and should be worn by health care staff only. It’s good that I didn’t buy at that time. I hope the masks which I would have bought must have reached some health care worker.

But now in Virginia they have made it mandatory for the public to wear masks if you are shopping for groceries. So we had to buy masks.

Masks are not available in any shops, and amazon the waiting time is long.

So here my husband got a link to order and we finally got it delivered yesterday. I can’t believe we paid $65 for four masks and a sanitizer!!